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We recommend splitting the difference and going half and half

Lightweight and graceful, this dress is a dreamy pick with just the right flirty edge

Take this frock from Chi Chi London - not only is it available in inclusive sizing, it's less than 100 so is a great option if you have lots of bridesmaids of different body shapes to buy for

Don't disregard the dress code and wear something inappropriate for the occasion